Viktoria Vader

Small essay “My living is loving”

I wish to share with you as to not lose myself, the love, the cheerfulness in routine of daily affairs and at times inconsistent events
And I do not ask to agree with me, remember - there is no speech agreeing or disagreeing.I do not try you in what to convince. I do not try to turn you into any belief, the theory, philosophy.
I simply share how it occurs to me, and perhaps this process will help to see to you a door to dream in the life.

The mankind has entered an epoch of an embodiment of mature love. Mature because this love includes not only feelings and emotions of early love where strongly play hormones.
Therefore the basic purpose of early love is continuation of a gender.
Mature because the person approaches to achievement of integrity as in itself so with the world surrounding it and by that its love includes sensibleness.

Through love and sensibleness you will support yourself, native and close in a condition of harmony, integrity and satisfaction.
Through love and sensibleness you will be happy every day that has not brought to you an external world.

The person should be each instant realizing, loving and creative.

All of us people active and inquisitive. We read books, we look cognitive transfers on the TV, we go on seminars. And.. We come to confusion. While we listen to someone, we agree. But at home… There and then we try to apply the received experts, techniques to themselves and … At times we test deep disappointment. It has not turned out, the result was not expected, became worse. And this disappointment the more strongly, that we were more active during inquisitiveness, desire to receive a certain advice, to find a certain doctrine and instantly to change the life to the best and for ever. It leads to depression, loss of meaning of the life.

Therefore, first of all I wish to pay your attention to some moments which have allowed me to not sink.

You should learn in this sea-ocean of the information which have fallen you, to find "own", what is equal to your soul. And only having understood, that this "own" to try to put it to the life.
To not follow a fashion, to not follow a rule “the famous man told about it, it helps to Anna and she is now very fine”.

There will be one advice which you are free and to not accept.

Each time when you receive any information, perceive it as only the information.
Yes, tell to itself, it is interesting, I wish to get acquainted with it more deeply and more close, but I remember, that it is the information. Yes, it has helped any person, and it is fine. But now I investigate, whether it will approach me!
Learn to hold a pause. During a pause information is stayed and you can see by new eye to it.
And it is well visible in proverbs. “Morning is most clever as evening” .Do not hurry up to apply the information during the life. Do not think how much time it takes. In the morning of any day you will understand, costs or it is not necessary to use this diet, this practice, this advice, this doctrine. Do not be fast. But do not give up of  an information only your first thought that you “know”. Of course, you know, soul knows all, but you do not use knowledge in own life.
So is. The first step to understand, where is ”own” diet, practice, advice, doctrine. How to understand it better I show.

Why the person not always reaches happiness and harmony in the life?

One of the reasons - it wishes to receive it from the outside. From the god, from success, from destiny, from other person. And when it should most make certain movements, it does not want or is frightened. In any case it starts to search for arguments why it has not made it. And certainly finds them. The intelligence and an ego of the person are very strong in creation of arguments, doctrines, theories, the beliefs justifying own inertness and own sufferings.
Therefore your first step to own happiness will be in they be having received “own” knowledge, you release a hand of the teacher whom it would not be, and will go independently. The teacher remains beside, you can always address to it. But only in own independence you realize the validity of the desires, the dream. Only in independence you become more strongly, more strong and more confidently. Should warn you will of doubt, doubts will not disappear. Accept doubts as aspect of research, do not create from doubts own fears. You are an inquisitive researcher of a life and apprehend doubts as the additional indicator of various opportunities of life..

Your own life in your hand